I'm attracted to men with intelligence and a sense of humor – those who can lighten any situation with a quick joke and surprise me with their wit. I love when there'***indness in their eyes and ambition in their soul. It's important for a man to be reliable, but not turn into a control freak. What turns me off is overconfidence without reason, a gloomy outlook on life, and conversations that revolve only around themselves. If your jokes are rougher than unsweetened morning coffee, we probably won't match.